Where did you
grow up and was reading and writing a part of your life?
I grew up all over. Mostly I recall my youth in Florida, it was
my coming of age time living in the south. I always read and the
main focus of my readings were self improvement books as well as
books on spirituality. Writing did not become as big a part of my
life until my later years.
Who were your earliest influences and why?
I would credit much of my influence on the Bible, Dale Carnegie,
the Tao (Chinese philosophy), Zig Ziglar and most any book that
I would read that would give me the tools to change my life.
Why did
you write "Mastering the Art of Success"? How do you define
Success? Do you believe people are born to be successful (genetic)
or is success from hard work or a combination of both?
I wrote Mastering the Art of Success as the result of my seminars.
People would always ask me afterwards if I had a book. It seemed
like a good idea, so I sat down and started writing. Mastering the
Art of Success focuses on simple lessons that can spark a persons
mind to become "Success Oriented". I always explain in
my seminars as well as my book that success is not definable. You
can't say "He's successful because he has a nice house and
lots of money." Because to do this you would then say the person
who does not have these things is not successful. Success is a state
of mind, a state in which you can achieve anything. People are born
with the ability to succeed, each and every person. If they do not,
or are not able to, harness that ability they may miss the boat
this time around. Once you tap into this part of yourself, you will
succeed in everything or anything you choose. The problem is that
most people give up just short of achieving their success. This
is often caused by the nay-sayers. People who try to hold others
back from achieving their goals and dreams.
In "Mastering the Art of Success" you talk about
how success "takes a great deal of practice" You also
say "Practice isn't enough". Please explain.
In order to be successful you will have to overcome obstacles. True
success can only be achieved after some soft of a failure. The greatest
inventions are as a result of a need. Success is no different, if
you do not "Need to Succeed" you probably won't. You need
to figure out what it is that will make you successful and start
from there. In saying practice is not enough, remember the second
part of that saying, perfect practice is what's necessary. When
people talk about practice, they generally refer to "going
through the motions", this is not enough. If you want to play
piano, its better to sit down to a focused 20 minute practice session,
than 3 hours of just fiddling around. 4. Talk a little about your
experiences as a bodyguard and businessman and how your experiences
helped you write "Mastering the Art of Success"
Every experience in life leads us to greater abilities. I was blessed
in my life to have such interesting careers. I always saw everything
I did as a step to changing the world, one person at a time. If
I read something interesting, I would share it. Likewise I would
also always ask people questions about their lives and lessons they've
learned. You can gain an immense amount of knowledge by listening.
I consider myself a good listener. Its all those things I've heard
/ learned over my years that have I've developed into my speeches
and book. 5. What is your personal the message/philosophy in "Mastering
the Art of Success" if you were asked to sum the entire
book into one sentence.
Do onto others as you wish done onto you. You will succeed in anything
if your goal is to be a good person and help others.
You talk about a very interesting concept of "Adding Time to
Your Day" - Please explain.
Most of us waste more than 4 hours per day, thinking about what
we want to do, watching TV, reading nonsense and other things. During
those times schedule your Success Time. Make your goals and focus
on how to achieve them. Do NOT spend time dwelling on the "what
if's". Each and every moment you have available should be spent
thinking and harnessing. Those people who have a full day can benefit
from getting up 30 minutes earlier and using that time to plan their
success strategy. There is always time, always.
What do you hope to achieve with your book?
Whether my book, seminars or anything else I do, it is my life goal
to affect people in a positive way. If I can improve the quality
of a persons life or their outlook on their life, my work will have
been done. I know that they will in turn pass this good deed on.
This way it won't end with just the goodness that I've been blessed
enough to enjoy. 8. What has been your feedback from readers?
Exactly what I would have wished, everyone has gotten "something"
out of the book. Interestingly enough most people have such various
comments that I've seen that the book has a very broad appeal. People
form such varying walks of life relate to the simple stories and
are able to apply them to their own lives. Some have careers I've
never heard of and comment on how I tapped into their mind-set.
I think that's interesting, because it was only my goal to open
my mind and heart to readers in this book.
What's next?
Everything. I've just recently completed my first film, a documentary
called "New Hope". About a village of 5000 people who live
on the banks of a trash dump in Tijuana Mexico. This film will open
peoples eyes to abundance we have and also invoke compassion for people
who do without, but yet still have their pride. I also have another
film that I'm finishing about various religions and how we can all
get along in spite of our differences of opinions and faith.
What was the last book you read?
The same book I read all the time, the Bible.
Do you have any hobbies? What are they?
How do they enhance your writing?
I love animals and I love music. In animals I see the innocence and
purity of this world. I think that by reaching out with compassion
to them it opens my heart to be receptive to more compassion. It makes
me feel good to help those who can't help themselves, whether people
or animals, I'm a big fan of the under-dog. I always considered myself
an underdog. Recently I've begun putting some of my thoughts to music.
I've learned to play guitar and am composing songs that "have
some sort of a message." I wrote the closing title song to my
last movie New Hope, the song is called, The Other Day.
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